The importance of being self-aware of your skin cannot be overstated, especially for individuals with fair skin, blue or green eyes, and blonde or ginger hair. While it’s important to stress that this is not intended to offend anyone, these specific characteristics often indicate a higher likelihood of easily burning in the sun. The potential damage from sun exposure is a real concern for these individuals, so taking proactive measures to protect their skin is crucial. From using high SPF sunscreen to seeking shade during peak sun hours, there are various steps that can be taken to minimize the risk of sunburn and long-term skin damage. It’s essential for individuals with these traits to stay informed and prioritize their skin health to maintain a healthy relationship with the sun.
Personally, I’m fair skin, freckles all over, blue eyes and strawberry blonde hair (when I had some!!).
It started one holiday when I reckon I was about 15 so that would be 1979. We were on holiday on a campsite in France and I had met a group of teenagers down to the beach, swimming and generally mucking about. I then fell asleep in the sun on the beach. The next 3 days were agony. I was a water blister from top to toe! Horrendous. That was my first and biggest mistake. There were other episodes but nothing quite like this.
Roll forward to 2013, holidays were about walking and relaxing. Andalucia was the chosen venue this year in a little village near Rhonda called Gaucin. Perfect walking and the property had an infinity pool that had a view over the Mediterranean to Gibraltar! One day, when we had been walking and after a lovely soak in the pool my wife said “that mole on your back is changing and the shape is too. It’s getting bigger!”
Getting back from holiday straight to the doctors and the local dermatology team. It was removed. They initially said it was a Basal Cell Carcinoma (BCC)which is just an ugly thing but not cancer. However, once the offending mole had been sent to pathology the story was very different – I HAD MALIGNANT MELANOMA. My life was about to change quite drastically.
After another small operation to remove an area of skin around the original site (wider lesion excision or WLE) I had a consultation with a plastic surgeon to discuss the next steps. Basically I would see him every six months for a routine check of my skin to see if there were any visible signs of recurrence. I always needed to check my lymph basin (neck, armpit and groin) on a very regular basis to feel for “lumps and bumps”.
Everything was going so well – till 2017. After a run I was showering and doing my lymph basin check. I felt a pea sizes lump in my right armpit – there was nothing like it in the left armpit. Here we go………
Fast-tracked into the Dermatology/Plastics team in the local hospital for the lump to be removed and sent to pathology. Yes, it was back after 4 years. So I had to return to hospital for a bigger operation to remove all the lymph nodes from that area. It was about 2 weeks in hospital and I had drains in my armpit for quire a while to ensure that there was no build up of excess bodily fluid. Those drains were grim and not great for conversation!!
As the cancer had spread to my lymph system it has the ability to travel around the body “at will”. I was assigned my Oncologist who has been brilliant (as have the whole team) throughout this ordeal. The plan was for me to see the team every 6 months. There was no mention of a scan at this stage. I was now quite concerned and my head was racing through all those nightmare scenarios that you should try to avoid. You can’t – it’s human nature.
I requested and pushed and pushed for a regular scan – just for my own “peace of mind”. Initially this was declined but I persisted. They said YES after a few months of pushing. The CT scans were every 6 months for 3 years and then annually thereafter for 2 years.
So the 6 monthly scans took me to 2020 – they were fine. All clear – No Evidence of Disease (NED). Great news.
Covid hit and lock down was upon us. The annual scan scheduled for 2021 was harder to organise. Eventually it happened. My health was fine – at least I thought it was! The scan showed a 5cm tumour in my PANCREAS!! Virtually all of my pancreas and my spleen were removed in early September 2021. The operation took 14 hours as the tumour had decided to wrap itself around a main artery. One wrong “nick” – I was gone!!
I’m still here – with a story to tell and a message to try and get across.
THE IMPORTANCE OF CHECKING YOUR SKIN (and using sunscreen at all times)
There are some really good ways of checking your skin yourself including the A,B,C,D,E rules

Click Here to see a short video
A is for Asymmetry
So what does ‘asymmetry’ mean, and what does it look like?
An asymmetric mole is one that’s irregular-shaped, uneven or lop-sided — you can try drawing an imaginary line in any direction through the middle of a mole and then look for moles where one half does not match the other.
In general, normal moles are evenly-coloured in brown, tan or black, and either flat or raised on the skin. They’re usually fairly symmetrical too.
B is for Borders
In normal moles, the borders or ‘edges’ of are fairly round and evenly formed. If you notice that the edges are becoming ragged, vary from sharp to fuzzy, or are notched, scalloped or blurred.
C is for Colour
Moles can be all sorts of different colours – that’s quite normal. Most commonly, they’re an evenly coloured spot on the skin, either flat or raised, round or oval. They can be flesh coloured, tan, brown or even black – and they can also darken over time or from exposure to the sun.
You should also watch out for:
- Moles that are large and brownish with darkening speckles.
- The pigment of a mole or spot that’s spreading from the border into surrounding skin — see ‘B’ is for Borders above.
- Dark lesions (unusual areas of skin) on the palms, soles of your feet, fingertips, toes, or in your mouth (see 8 places you wouldn’t expect to find skin cancer).
- Spots under fingernails or toenails that are changing in colour – or a dark stripe running through a fingernail or toenail (that’s not caused by trauma to your nail).
As most of us know, people with fair or very pale skin (particularly those who have a lot of moles and freckles), are most at risk of skin cancer. If you have olive or dark skin, your risk is reduced – but remember that low risk doesn’t mean NO risk. People with darker skin can still get melanoma – in fact, Bob Marley, died from a melanoma on his toenail!
What’s more, darker skinned people often aren’t as vigilant about wearing sunscreen and other sun safety precautions as those with paler, frecklier skins, so their skin can end up with a lot more harmful sun damage over time.
D is for Diameter
When it comes to moles and other spots, size does matter – especially a change in size. The general rule is that if a mole is bigger than 6mm (i.e. the size of a pea or the eraser on a pencil), it can be a warning sign of melanoma. The earlier melanoma is detected, the better, so don’t wait for a suspicious-looking mole to grow to 6mm in size.
Dangerous moles commonly tend become bigger in size over weeks or months – although conversely, they can become smaller as well. Both changes are a cause for concern. One important thing to note is that dangerous moles also tend to grow unevenly and have ragged or uneven borders.
D also stands for ‘dark’. No matter what the size of a spot, if it’s dark — or growing darker — it can be sign of melanoma. A tiny but very dark spot can be very dangerous, so if you notice a spot like this, it’s important to get it checked out as soon as possible
E is for Evolving (or Elevated)
As we age, our skin is constantly changing. It’s all just a normal part of getting older, but, when it comes to moles and other spots, change isn’t always a good thing.
Moles usually emerge in childhood and adolescence, and change in size and colour as you grow. New moles can also appear at times when your hormone levels change, such as during pregnancy. They can appear anywhere on your body, alone or in groups.
The appearance of a new mole or spot, or a change in an existing freckle or mole, can be an early sign of a melanoma.1 The change may be in asymmetry, borders, colour or size (see A,B,C,D above) and normally occurs over several weeks or months. Other changes to watch for include itching, bleeding, oozing or crusting – these are the most concerning of all the melanoma warning signs.
F is for Firm
Nodular melanoma accounts for about 15% of melanoma in Australia and New Zealand5. This type of melanoma can affect anyone, but is generally much more common in men over 50 and those with fair skin
Here is a link to Melanoma UK skin care information.

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